How does one succeed in life?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How should one respond to compliments such as "You are so special" and "I'm lucky to have met you" from a guy?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Does not procrastinate.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Do dogs feel love?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Making more friends is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Why would a man be interested in an ordinary woman while there are very beautiful and fabulous women?

That's it for today.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Why do most atheists in debates with theists take Bible verses out of context much of the time? Are they lying maliciously or do they not understand theology enough to understand the meaning?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why are people so rude to debt collector’s? I am one and I am so tired of being mistreated. We are under paid and then have to deal with the most ungrateful, and disrespectful people. We aren’t customer service. Don’t get mad at us because YOU owe.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What should I do? I'm 17 and I'm dating a 23-year-old guy.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How do I get fit at home?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

I have BPD. Why do I destroy everyone I love?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Ask yourself:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

What I need from you?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0: